Esabod, The Mentally depressed woman who only gets ‘happiness’ through destruction of other people lives (IGARA WEREE)

In the world where everyone is thriving to make indelible impact worthy of reference in future, ignonimity beckons on some to shamelessly spread their dirty linens outside for everyone to see.  The case becomes so worrisome, excruciating and infuriating by the day as to why people would take themselves to the gutters over domestic and private affairs when personal developments and achievements should be more of the issue in the public domain and not who sleeps around and who doesn't have a job.

"The highest degree of madness is to assume the position of being better than everyone else and always have a bowl full of replies to every discuss. It is purely an indication of joblessness while gainfully employed."

I have many of them to talk about but I will start with the most annoying of them, Esabod (aka Esther Tokunbo Ashabi Aboderin) a self proclaimed spiritualist, and Blogger; who believes that as a ‘Blogger’ she is the moral crusader with the right to destroy other people’s lives by revealing their shenanigans and blackmailing individuals that falls victim in her trap, with a special interest in adultery and.  Yet, here is a woman who confessed to being sexually immoral before she suddenly decided to ‘virginalise’ herself due to her newly found spiritual life,  while still sleeping around with Irsh white man( MeatSupplier)  and some young guys of her son's age range.  Who does she think she is that she has to meddle in people’s private businesses?  Not only that but to fabricate stories with the intention of creating permanent defamation on the person’s character and professional life! most especially those who are not on the same page with her socially and ideologically.

Unfortunately she had and is always playing to the gallery causing unsettling disharmony among harmonious people and breaking some homes in the process. She’s known to be embellished in uncouthed vulgarity and perpetual idiocy. She’s known for swearing and cursing abilities. This had attracted a lot of sympathizers to her which made her fan base explosive.  You can only expect to have some uncultured and derogatory sneaky people in her sympathising community.

Esabod started off very well, a very likeable character which earned her many fans due to her intensive knowledge of ‘roots and herbs’. She was (and still is up to a point) a no-nonsense individual with a ‘motherly’ persona which her fans and ‘haters’ admired. 

However, the laughter and the jokes (too many nicknames she gave to her ‘haters’) slowly began to fade due to her incessant abuse and curses to anyone she deemed to be against what she does or makes comments on her perceived ‘haters’ Facebook walls.  By her own admission, she publicly declared that she was a ‘fallen angel’ which later on became the justification for people to assume she was indeed the devil incarnate! 

It took several months for her to realise the biblical interpretation of ‘fallen angel’.   Due to her age, ’55 going 60’, she can be forgiven for not having the full understanding of the expression.  Here is an educationally challenged woman but still has native intelligence to outsmart her rivals who are ‘more’ educated than her.   Unfortunately, who are no better than her for their constant ‘assassination’ of the English language – which can be summed up as ‘ranting and ranting’.   Esabod can also be forgiven for being forgetful as she definitely is menopausal, again, by her own admission.   Could also be because of her loquacious nature, forgetting that people download her videos for future reference?  

Could she blamed for drawing unnecessary attention to herself when she publicly announced how much she was making from blogging and You Tube videos?

Evidently, she thrives on chaos and very vindictive! Once she is fixated on someone, she hardly let go like a Rottweiler! She claims to have moved on since her ex-husband, Gadaffy (also known as Abudu, Prince Niyi Oyewole) left her 13 years ago.   However, the level of bile she spews out, is an indication that she certainly has NOT.  How much money does she have that makes her vilify people? Few seem to understand that underneath the bravado, she is a very depressed woman who only gets ‘happiness’ through destruction of other people.

Another Victim of her constant social media abuse is – Mr Kolade Idowu Animashaun (labeled as Baba Olosanyin) who has been subjected to constant abuse but has never responded publicly to Esabod.  The unforgivable was committed when Esabod brought in his estranged children into the lone war (Esabod seems to fight imaginary figures due to her mental health issues). She alleged that Kolade abused his daughter giving details of their address, name of the child and mother. The mother who is said to be estranged from Kolade should have taken a legal stand against Esabod, whether or not the allegation was true, because her public proclamation went on for several months on Facebook Strangely enough, Esabod seems to forget all the abuse against other people’s children when it suits her. She will even lie and starts swearing, forgetting that the videos are in the public domain.

Esabod should be ashamed of herself that she constantly craves unnecessary publicity by causing contention on Facebook.  Her behaviour demonstrate jealousy as she regards the younger ones who have recently started video chats as rivals. Why instigate her fans to fight other people on Facebook?  Recently, she tried to elicit money (£3000 / N1,890,00) from her ‘enemies’ such as Infinity in exchange for the alleged audio recordings he made.  This act of extortion incidentally is tantamount to BLACKMAIL! This is an offence in Irish law – Criminal Justice (Public Order) Act 1994. In her crafty manner, she says the ransom is all a joke. 

As usual, Esabod’s way of escape from the law is to feign mental illness.  It is unspeakable to know that even professionals like Helen Gbemi Ogundimu a registered nurse in London would get involved in this atrocious mess!  Rather unfortunate that those fuelling the problems on Facebook are those ‘Omo Ewe’ who call her ‘Mummy’! For a 55-year old, it is rather sad! Esabod craves attention and believes the younger generation who are busy building up their own fan base should constantly pay her homage, forgetting that they are ALL STRANGERS ON THE CYBERSPACE! 

Esabod should get a life and act her age. Respect is earned and NOT demanded. Esabod could be said to be suffering from delusions of grandeur. She should just concentrate on her fake Herbs and entertain the "OMO EWE".  Blog but do not destroy people’s reputation with fallacy.  Enduring fame is not built on other people’s misfortunes or damaged reputation! If you can dish it out, you have to learn how to take it!  Concentrate on your calling and avoid detractors.

Abike Jagaban Ghaba (Orikan body, Headmistress) - made a mistake of revealing her friend’s (Jibike) secrets by making several audio tapes which has earned her notoriety. She has tried to reinvent herself but unfortunately, Esabod would not let her forget the past by constantly reminding her of betrayal. Esabod and the "OMO EWE" continued to bully Abike to the extent of flagging down her page on facebook, Esabod was delightered that her explosive fans "OMO EWE" are not to be mess about with during her sunday live chat.  

Abike is the ONLY PERSON who can face Esabod. She is what Esabod was to Kemi Olunloyo. Law of Karma!  she is strong enough to stand on her own and Esabod saw Abike has the only person that can face her squarely without fear, this act of courage gave other victims that Esabod has bullied to associate with Abike who we can be seen as "Advocate to the Voiceless People" on social media.

Oluwabukola Jesse Yeye Mesho (aka Ehinacho, Ambali, etc.) – what a treacherous human being!she's constantly attacking innocent people on Facebook and even threatening some people with (Deportation) Immigration problems, this are people who's personal views are different from her's and that of her spiritual mentor Tokunbo Aboderin Esabod.  Despite the support of Folashade Olatunji, she left her to be totally ‘gorged’ like a Spanish bull by Abike Jagaban Ghaba.  She continued to leave derogatory messages on series of Facebook Walls. Olubukola Jesse is now a very well known name for fueling the unrest on social media amongst the yoruba people.

So many Nigerians are engaged in diverse businesses and professions which make us really proud but unsung heroes and heroines. It is therefore ridiculous to see some crass individuals using profanities, all in the name of cracking jokes as if they are street urchins.  The cyberspace is met for everyone to do their own thing as they deem fit. No one is the boss for others to pay homage to. No doubt, the hecklers contributed to the furore. Esabod derive joy from the slandering, trolling from one Facebook wall to the next. 

It is time for Esther Tokunbo Aboderin (Esabod) to bury her head in shame for disappointing and destroying the generation under her tutelage and mentorship.